October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month, although as with any disability awareness month, awareness, inclusion and an all-around welcoming attitude should happen year round. I asked parents on social media who have kids with DS, along with family members, to share what they thought nobody can tell about their children with Down syndrome. These are the amazing responses:
“People don’t realize how smart kids with Down syndrome can be. Nathan has known the entire alphabet since he was two, and at four he knows uppercase and lowercase alphabet, colors, shapes and numbers to 20. He’s an excellent problem solver, and an expert at manipulation (especially with females)! His speech therapist recently told me that he’s so smart he’s figured out how to ‘play dumb’ so he can get away with more!”—Andi Sligh, Bringing the Sunshine
“They have no idea just now much light Dylan, 2, adds to our lives. They can’t see just how amazing his life already is, and how amazing it’s going to be. He’s pictured with his big brother Jackson, who has autism. They’re my superheroes!”—Toni M.
“How much drive she gives me. This is my sister Amy, we are 18 years apart and our mother is about to turn 65. I have ESRD (kidney failure) but my responsibility to my sister keeps me strong, even when I feel like my illness is overwhelming me. She is my best friend and I live to make her happy.”—April F.
“He’s a great friend and big brother! He may not be able to talk but he has plenty to say! He has feeling, likes and dislikes just like anyone else! He’s also a huge Seahawks fan!”—Heidi F.
“Carly, my daughter with autism, has many friends with Down syndrome, three in particular that she’s closest to. They are all so different. One is quiet and easygoing, one is the class clown and the other one is the boss! They are the three musketeers but when Carly’s around, she’s never left out. They are sweet and kind and they don’t lose interest just because Carly doesn’t answer back all the time when they try to talk to her. They know the true meaning of inclusion!”—Marci R.
“He is paying attention to everything that is going on and watching everyone all the time. He knows when we are talking about him.”—Nechama K.
“How unique her personality is and how smart she is. She’s not interested in all this princess stuff. She declared yesterday, ‘I queen!’”—Tricia D.
“How much he’s impacted so many lives in such a positive and amazing way.”—Kristy H.
“That she is just one of the gang when it comes to the family. She’s changed our whole perspective on life.”—Laura T.
“People can’t tell how much she loves drama—I mean the good kind of drama, acting in plays!”—Michelle Beausoleil Helferich, Big Blueberry Eyes
“They cannot tell that he is really The Flash in his everyday clothing! Honestly, that he is not always happy.”—Vesta R.
“That while she looks all sweet and innocent, she can be a stubborn little thing. Ellie is one spunky girl who loves to climb and dance.”—Anna. T
“That he has a hilarious sense of humor…owns my heart…makes life so much better! And he can work technology about a million times better than most adults!”—Ashley B.
“How strong he is. Both physically and mentally! At six he always amazes people with how strong he is when he’s fighting for something he does—or doesn’t—want. And he has overcome more obstacles than most people do in a lifetime yet still his spirit and joy for life shine through. I love this kid.”—Kristi D.
